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Tired of roses? Here are 13 flowers to give instead on Valentine’s Day

We know it’s coming every year, but still, it’s hard to know what to give the people we love for Valentine’s Day. There’s a lot of pressure to get the right thing and make sure it correctly expresses how you feel about the other person. So to ensure you don’t mess this year up, here is a complete guide to the flowers and gifts worth giving for Valentine’s Day.

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What is the language of flowers?

Throughout the centuries, the language of fresh flowers has been used in mythology, sonnets, folklore, and plays. People have always been obsessed with finding meaning in everything, and flowers are no different. Fortunately, there’s almost no feeling, expression, or event that can’t be expressed with flowers. You just have to know which ones to use.

While most of the symbols have been forgotten, you can use this guide to help find the perfect flower for your Valentine, whether they’re a lover, a friend, or family. There are way too many flowers and their meanings to cover here, so we’ll go over some of the most popular and most appropriate for this time of year. It might even be fun to explain these meanings in the card you give along with the flowers.

  • Aster is a symbol of love
  • Calla lilies mean beauty
  • A red camellia says, “you’re a flame in my heart”
  • A white camellia means “you’re adorable”
  • Pink carnations mean “I’ll never forget you”
  • A red chrysanthemum says, “I love you”
  • Daylilies are the Chinese emblem of motherhood
  • Edelweiss is a symbol of courage and devotion
  • Gardenias are for a secret love
  • Grange lilies stand for hatred in case you need something for your ex!
  • Pink roses mean happiness
  • salvia flowers say “forever mine”
  • Ted tulips mean passion

What kind of flowers should you not give on Valentine’s Day?

Not every flower’s meaning is something lovely and sweet; some flowers have nasty and nefarious meanings. Naturally, you’ll want to avoid giving these types of flowers to your Valentine, so here is a list to keep you out of the dog house!

  • Daffodils should be avoided, even though they’re probably popping up everywhere this time of year. You’ll want to steer clear since these flowers mean vanity or self-absorption.
  • Yellow carnations are another flower to avoid giving your Valentine. They are pretty little flowers but are associated with disgust and rejection.
  • Lavender might be a great flower for a bedside table to help with relaxing after a long day. Still, your significant other won’t want to receive them on Valentine’s Day since they usually signify mistrust.
  • Yellow chrysanthemums mean sorrow and regret, which are more than a little inappropriate during this time of year.
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What gifts besides red roses are often given on Valentine’s Day?

Need some gift ideas that aren’t roses or other flowers? Here are some of our favorite gift ideas for Valentine’s Day that aren’t flowers.

  • Who doesn’t love candy? Instead of a bouquet of flowers, get your significant other a bouquet of candy! This is also a great Valentine’s Day gift for your friends or family.
  • Everyone has a wine friend, and if you don’t have a wine friend, you probably are the wine friend! Either way, while flowers are nice, wine is a tasty way to send someone you love a gift they’ll enjoy. Of course, it might not last in their house as long as flowers will, but at least they can enjoy it with a good meal or dessert.
  • Buy them a gift card for a massage, facial, pedicure, or manicure; nothing says I love you or I appreciate you more than the gift of self-care.
  • Another fantastic gift to give would be a house-cleaning service; nothing says pamper yourself like letting someone else do the cleaning for a day. This might be especially lovely for those with pregnant wives whose back and feet will be thankful for the break!
  • Many of our significant others love flowers, but those only last about a week. So instead give them a plant! A succulent is easy to care for and lasts for years and years, just like your love.

If the idea of getting your soulmate the wrong flower on this critical day is too stressful, stick with our non-flower gift suggestions. Or simply ask the florist for their opinion; they’ll be able to guide you through the flower-buying process expertly. Stop by a small shop and get an expert opinion and you’re sure to get a kiss after giving your beautiful bouquet!

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